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Read, Laugh, and Share Healthy Living Secrets

I love getting together with my girlfriends and I think Anti-Aging and Secrets of Healthy Living to Stop the Clock! is perfect for a fun, lively book club. Reading is always better when you can swap stories, laugh together, and share tips that actually work in real life. In my book, I share habits and strategies for feeling your best at every stage of life. From smarter workouts and skin and hair tips to the foods that keep you healthy and glowing plus ideas for self-care that boost confidence, it is all about practical ways to feel and look your best. I wrote it in a way that feels like I am sitting across from you, chatting and sharing what really works and what is surprisingly simple to do. To make it easy to get the conversation started, I have included book club questions designed to be fun, open-ended, and perfect for sharing stories, swapping notes, and figuring out which tips feel doable or surprising in your own life. You can find all the questions and tips on the Book Club page. Grab your girlfriends, your copies of the book, and get ready to laugh, learn, and walk away with fresh ideas to feel more vibrant, confident, and energized every day. Reading together is not just fun, it is a chance to inspire each other and take small steps toward a healthier, happier life.  

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Making Healthy Choices While on Vacation

Everyone needs time to decompress, relax and have fun!  Many times, we spend our vacation away from home; on a cruise, a European adventure or a location on the beach.  How can we enjoy our “down time” and not return exhausted and five pounds heavier The first thing we need to be understand is how to “blast out” jet lag.  I have a very difficult time going west to east (for others it is the east to west travel).  The best way I have found to beat jet lag involves a few key steps.  First, try to avoid alcohol and sodium rich foods while flying.  The wine will dehydrate you which can cause you to feel tired, hungry and might give you a headache.  Too much sodium will cause you to bloat, and you’ll retain water especially in your hands, feet and face.  Not a good look on your vacay. Next, I have found that exercising for 45-60 minutes at a moderate to high intensity does wonders to “blow out” the jet lag.  Even if the last thing I want to do is jump on a treadmill or take a long, brisk walk, I force myself to do so.  And does it make a difference!  You’ll thank me the next day.  In addition to exercising, make sure you are hydrating, hydrating and hydrating!  Water is liquid gold that lubricates our joints, removes toxins and improves both our cognitive abilities and our skin’s appearance.  It is a “must do” for me. Once we’ve gotten rid of the jet lag, how can we enjoy ourselves without overindulging or giving up our exercise routine?  When I am on vacation, I most likely won’t use the gym every day, but I make choices to maintain my step goal.  Consider taking the steps versus an elevator.  If you are on a cruise ship, this tip will get you places faster and you’ll be much less frustrated than waiting for an elevator.  Enjoy a morning and/or after dinner walk.  In the morning, you’ll enjoy the beautiful early morning sky.  What a wonderful way to start your day! If you sleep in, then consider watching the sunset.  You might even get to see the “green flash” if you are lucky.  If you are walking in the evening within a few hours of bedtime, avoid a fast, intense pace otherwise you might “wake up” and have difficulty falling asleep.  Other adventures may be available as well.  Bike riding, swimming, golf, tennis and even shuffleboard are great alternatives to the gym while you are on holiday. So, we’ve gotten over or even avoided jet lag, we’ve planned ways to get our bodies moving and next we want to avoid overindulging with all those fabulous cocktails and food choices.  I tend to eat one full meal a day.  I may have a light breakfast or lunch with plans to enjoy dinner.  I also bring “healthy choices” in my luggage.  These include protein bars, trail mix, pouches of tuna and a few packets of instant soup.  These are low in calories, portable and easy to store.  Another favorite tip of mine is to go to a grocery store and pick up cherry tomatoes, cheese and salami.  These also make terrific “light lunches” or you can take them with you if you are sightseeing for the day or hiking.  If you eat three full meals a day and snacks, you may find that you are feeling heavy, tired and do not want to exercise.  Eating lighter except for one full meal helps you to stay energized and guilt free no matter what you order at dinner!  If you are programmed to have three full meals a day, then consider fruit for breakfast versus bacon and eggs and a light salad or soup for lunch versus the burger. And don’t forget to keep hydrating. Making healthy choices while on vacation is easy to do with some thought and planning.  The French eat high fat, calorie laden food but are slender.  How do they do it?  The key to their lifestyle is eating in moderation and small servings of incredibly rich food.  Americans are so used to super-sized portions that many people don’t know what a “portion” size is.  You can use your hand and other images to help you measure portion sizes.  Look below and you may be shocked at how small a portion size is compared to what you are taking in. Meat & poultry = palm of your hand Fish = hand area where a smart phone would cover Cheese = 2 dice Nuts or seeds = a large egg Dry cereal = closed fist Butter or oil = tip of your thumb Fruits & vegetables = size of a lightbulb Dried fruit = golf ball Peanut butter = one ping pong ball Rice, pasta, mashed potatoes or beans = tennis ball Baked potato = computer mouse Leafy greens = baseball After looking at this list, you may be thinking “oh no”.  Remember that knowledge is power.  If your normal portions are a lot larger, consider drinking a half or full glass of water before your meal, which can help you feel full sooner.  I try to consciously slow down how quickly I eat.  I’ll set my fork down frequently to pause between bites.  Another idea is taking a short walk before diving in for seconds (most times you won’t want them) or completing your meal with tea or coffee. Another tip is to plan when you’ll have your cocktails.  Some people start out with Bloody Mary’s in the morning, switch to calorie laden fruity drinks during the day then have wine or beer at night.  You might be consuming well over 2000 calories a day with drinks alone, plus risking a hangover or headache.  Now, maybe you’ll go wild on Day 1, but pace yourself for the rest of the trip so you won’t be lugging back an additional 5# with you.  Some alternatives are club soda with lime,

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Stop the Clock: My Real Secrets to Looking & Feeling 10 Years Younger

You don’t need surgery or injectables to feel vibrant. As a registered nurse with decades of clinical experience and a Master’s in Science, I’ve seen firsthand what truly supports long-term health, and what silently accelerates aging over time. The secret to healthy aging isn’t about drastic routines; it’s about small, intentional habits you can maintain every day. I’m happy to share some of the habits I practice myself, and I encourage you to try them too—they’re simple, actionable, and highly effective for building lasting energy, strength, and health. 1. Strength Training: Your Anti-Aging “Insurance” Even brief strength training sessions can protect bones, preserve muscle mass, and support metabolism as we age. The key is consistency, not hours in the gym. How I Make It Work: The Toothbrush Workout: Squats or leg lifts while brushing your teeth, just four minutes a day makes a difference. Focus on short, sustainable resistance exercises rather than long, complicated routines. Why it matters: Maintaining muscle and bone density isn’t just cosmetic; it reduces injury risk and helps you stay independent longer. 2. Move Daily: Your Body’s Natural Medicine The human body relies on motion to circulate fluids, support the lymphatic system, and regulate mood. Daily movement is one of the most powerful ways to support longevity. How I Make It Work: The Daily Walk: 45–60 minutes of walking releases tension, boosts endorphins, and improves circulation. Dance Breaks: Even a short dance at home helps if you can’t get outside. Why it matters: Regular movement supports energy, mobility, and overall resilience. 3. Eat in a Way That Supports You Healthy eating doesn’t have to be complicated. Small habits and smart planning make nutritious meals easy, even during a busy week. How I Make It Work: The 30-Second Salad: Wash and chop vegetables on the weekend for fast weekday meals. Smart Freezing: Batch-cook sauces or chili and freeze in portioned bags for quick, healthy dinners. The “Low-Fat” Trap: Many low-fat foods are loaded with sugar; full-fat options are often healthier. Why it matters: Proper nutrition supports energy, hormone balance, and skin health while reducing inflammation. 4. Skin, But Smarter Healthy skin isn’t about chasing wrinkles; it’s about supporting the body’s natural repair systems. Circulation, collagen production, and cellular health matter most. How I Make It Work: Facial Acupuncture (Mei Zen): Encourages collagen production and balances energy. Red Light Therapy Panels: Cover the face, neck, and chest while multitasking, like during a short morning routine. Why it matters: Supporting the skin from the inside out delivers subtle, long-lasting results. 5. Boundaries Are a Key Anti-Aging Habit Chronic stress accelerates aging by affecting hormones, sleep, and inflammation. Protecting your time and energy is just as important as exercise or nutrition. How I Make It Work: The Power of “No”: Protect your time without overexplaining. Connection Without Burnout: Opt for shorter, manageable interactions, like meeting up for coffee, instead of draining commitments such as attending a full dinner party. Why it matters: Reducing stress supports resilience, immune function, and overall longevity. Small Wins Add Up Over Time Looking and feeling your best doesn’t require extreme routines or perfection. Small, intentional daily habits stack over time to create lasting energy, vitality, and resilience.

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Guest Appearance: The You World Order

The “Stop the Clock” Method: Strength, Simple Meals, and Skin Rituals That Actually Work by Jill Hart Younger Without Injectables: Mary Beth Newell’s Anti-Aging Secrets for Busy Women Read on Substack I recently had the opportunity to join host Jill Hart on The You World Order podcast, where I shared my top tips and practical strategies for looking and feeling at least 10 years younger. We talked about what actually makes a difference, including habits, mindset, and small shifts that add up so you can feel more energized, confident, and vibrant at any stage of life. Grab a cup of tea, send this to a friend, and take a listen at the link provided.

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Guest Appearance: Global Book Network

I had the pleasure of joining the Global Book Network podcast with Emmy-winning broadcaster Logan Crawford to talk about healthy aging and the principles behind my book, Anti-Aging and Secrets of Healthy Living to Stop the Clock!. We dove into practical, evidence-based strategies to help you look younger, feel more vibrant, and thrive at every stage of life, covering everything from nutrition and skincare to mindset and lifestyle habits.

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Guest Appearance: Inspired Living with Autoimmunity

I had a great conversation with host Julie Howton about healthy aging, vitality, and what it really means to thrive at every stage of life. I drew on my years in healthcare and wellness to share practical, real-life strategies you can actually use to feel your best, starting right where you are. Pour yourself a cup of tea and give it a listen.

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Guest Appearance: The Power Podcast

 I joined host Nilesh Wakade for a relaxed, down-to-earth conversation about realistic habits that support healthy aging and vibrant living. We talked about simple, doable changes that fit into real life and actually make a difference. Put it on during your next walk, share it with a girlfriend, and come listen in.

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I Accidentally Dyed My Blonde Hair Dark Blue!

One Saturday afternoon, I decided to use the new deep conditioning hair mask I had gotten on the clearance rack from TJ Maxx.  As a platinum  blonde, I am always on the lookout for purple and blue shampoos or hair masks to brighten my hair.  I was so pleased to find what I thought was a blue mask.  These shampoos and masks are colored purple or blue and reduce unwanted yellow and orange tones, also called brassiness. As I was squeezing out the mask, the deep blue color of the mask did not phase me.  These shampoos and masks are always a very deep color.  But, as I was putting the mask on my hair I noticed that my hands were starting to turn blue.  And I am talking Smurf blue.  My first thought was, there is something wrong with this mask!  I was thinking that the dye must have separated from the deep conditioning ingredients.  I then looked at my wet hair and thought “Oh no, my hair is absorbing the dye!” I immediately jumped back in the shower and washed my hair four times.  Each time I looked in the mirror and noticed no difference.  I had deep blue hair!  I called my hairdresser and left a frantic message.  It was almost 4 pm and I know they tend to close early on Saturdays.  Now keep in mind that my hairdresser is only open Wednesday through Saturday.  My boyfriend had a romantic getaway planned for us starting on Tuesday and there was no way I wanted to show up with deep blue hair that had some patches of platinum blonde showing.  What was a girl to do?!  I decided to make a mad dash for Sally’s Beauty. As I was pulling out of the garage the phone rang and it was the beauty salon.  The receptionist was just about to leave and saw my message.  Unfortunately, my hairdresser had left but she called her to get some advice.  I sat in my driveway waiting for her to call me back and hoping that she would tell me to come into the salon on her day off so she could fix it.  Well, the offer to come into the salon did not materialize, but she did tell me about a bleach bath.  So off to Sally’s I go with my wet, blue hair.  The salesgirl asked me if I needed any help, and I explained my dilemma.  She told me that I did not need bleach, rather clarifying crystals and if that did not work then a color stripper.  She assured me that the clarifying crystals should remove the color.  I texted my family to warn them about my hair, as they were coming for dinner.  When I got home my daughter started laughing hard.  In contrast, my ten-year-old granddaughter thought that it was “cool”. My daughter looked at the mask packaging and told me I had bought a deep blue color depositing mask, not a blue conditioning mask.  Yikes! I immediately activated the clarifying crystals, put them in my hair with a cap and waited thirty minutes, shampooed twice and nothing! Hmm, maybe the Sally’s Beauty salesgirl wasn’t as knowledgeable as my hairdresser.  I decided not to pursue the color stripper and try the bleach bath. So, I sent my daughter back to Sally’s to get the bleach and lower volume peroxide to go with it.  As I was getting dinner ready, I had the bleach mixture on my hair.  It was a combination of one packet of bleach and equal amounts of peroxide and shampoo.  By adding the shampoo, it makes the process less damaging.  Bleach can be extremely damaging and I already had processed hair so I was a bit nervous, even though I was using a milder version of bleach.  While I am a platinum blonde, I was not familiar with using bleach.  My hair responds very well to a high-lift peroxide product.  My hairdresser warned me not to overprocess my hair.  Overprocessed hair can break off and my hair is long.  The last thing I wanted was a three-inch punk rock hair style.  It looked like it was doing something under the shower cap and after thirty minutes (maximum time recommended to have bleach on your hair), I washed it out and had teal hair.  An improvement, but still on the blue spectrum. I was fearful of doing another bleach bath, so I Googled and watched You Tube videos.  One site recommended sitting in the sun to lighten your hair. I live in Florida, so I put on my sunscreen and sat in the sun for hours with minimal to no lightening.  The Sally’s Beauty salesgirl said it was semi-permanent and would eventually wash out.  I must have washed my hair forty times, including using clarifying shampoo.  No luck.  One You Tuber swore by an equal mixture of baking soda and Dawn dish soap.  I smeared it on my hair, waited and washed it out.  Dawn is not easy to get out, so that was a good ten shampoos to get it out and yet the stubborn teal color persisted. I knew I had no choice but to try the bleach bath again with a slightly higher (and more damaging) peroxide level.  I ordered a professional bleach packet from Amazon with the higher volume peroxide and prayed my hair would not break off.  On Monday morning, I put it on my hair and risked leaving it on for 35 minutes.  I could see it working and was hoping an extra five minutes would get it out without ruining my hair.  I washed it out and was grateful that clumps of hair were not coming out as I was shampooing.  By now, my hair was almost white where it had been blonde and thank goodness the blue areas were an extremely pale baby blue.  Obviously, I noticed it but it was not immediately noticeable to other people.  And my hair was not breaking off! 

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